Lucas's baby naming ceremony was beautiful. One of the most meaningful parts for me was the portion the rabbi had Craig and I read - 'May we allow our son to life his own life and celebrate his individual path. May we help him to live and grow and have the wisdom to let go gracefully. May we always raise our voices in happiness at what he is rather than in vexation at what he is not.' We will have succeeded in parenthood if we can live up to that promise.